Welcome to the world of Matthew Hussey Quotes! If you’re seeking inspiration, wisdom, and motivation in the realm of relationships, personal growth, and life’s journey, you’ve come to the right place. Matthew Hussey, a renowned dating and relationship expert, has shared invaluable insights and words of encouragement through his books, seminars, and media appearances. Now, you can find a curated collection of his most compelling quotes right here on this page.
Matthew Hussey’s quotes touch on a wide range of topics, including love, self-confidence, communication, and pursuing your passions. Whether you’re looking for guidance in your romantic life, seeking empowerment to chase your dreams, or simply in need of some uplifting words to brighten your day, you’ll discover thought-provoking and meaningful quotes below. Feel free to copy them, pair them with inspiring images, or enhance them with stylish fonts to create your own motivational reminders. Let’s dive into the world of Matthew Hussey’s wisdom and find the inspiration you need to navigate life’s challenges and pursue your goals.
Halloween might be a time that’s renowned for ghosts, but we no longer experience ghosts only on Halloween. In our dating lives, we are now used to being ‘ghosted’ the whole year round. Matthew Hussey
Guys don’t approach women who look like they are going to say ‘Sorry, no.’ Matthew Hussey
When you say yes to the invite of someone new, you’re also saying yes to their network. And their network contains people you may be attracted to. Matthew Hussey
Remember that the most confident people make others feel confident around them. Matthew Hussey
Anything that a man hears is sexy is gold to him. Matthew Hussey
A friend of mine once earnestly said to his girlfriend, ‘You look so pretty tonight,’ and she replied, ‘You’re such a dork.’ Her deflection was a total turn-off. It didn’t make him feel attractive, nor did it encourage him to keep complimenting her. Matthew Hussey
I love when people come up to me and tell me they are in a relationship because of me. But I equally love the breakup stories, the person who says, ‘I left someone last week because of you.’ I like to think I saved 10 years of their lives. Matthew Hussey
Quite simply, if someone tells you often that they’re dreaming of, or thinking about, you, it means you’re someone they see as a big part of their life. When you’re in their head, it means you’re also pretty close to their heart. Matthew Hussey
We’ve all grown wary of being lied to online – let’s face it, dudes are always exaggerating their heights – so trust is a hot commodity. Matthew Hussey
I have strong views, and I can’t imagine not ever being honest about those views. Matthew Hussey
Any online dating profile is about making us more human, more three-dimensional. Matthew Hussey
Commitment phobes will be scared of making plans for the next weekend, let alone six months from now! Matthew Hussey
If you look like you’re hiding something, we’re more likely to swipe left. Matthew Hussey
Too many women are being chosen by men that they don’t choose. Matthew Hussey
It’s instinct: Men love to feel like they take care of you. Knowing you feel protected makes his ego grow two sizes bigger. Matthew Hussey
When someone feels truly in love, they feel certain. That means they lose any commitment-phobia and will want to find ways to bring you closer together. Matthew Hussey
I really like classic, simple clothes. Matthew Hussey
So many books are designed to help you with your love life spend their time telling you what you can’t do. What I love about ‘Get The Guy’ is it spends the majority of its time telling you what you can do. Matthew Hussey
I am known predominantly for dealing with people’s relationships. Matthew Hussey
You invest in someone based on how much they invest in you. Matthew Hussey
He’s more of a slob than you? Instead of condemning, state your standards: ‘I need to live in a place that’s clean. I respect that it’s not a big deal to you, but it’s important to me to enjoy my home.’ This removes ego. Matthew Hussey
Guys aren’t used to out-of-the-blue compliments. Matthew Hussey
Boldness is sexy, especially when it’s done with a wink. Matthew Hussey
If he wants you over for the holidays or can’t wait for you to have dinner with his buddies, it’s a sign he wants them to love you as much as he does. Matthew Hussey
You become a better dater when you have a truly fulfilling life that is not dependent on someone else. Even if someone leaves, your life continues unscathed. Matthew Hussey
We live in a very mollycoddled society where the slightest bit of discomfort is seen as wrong, but that discomfort is there for a reason. It’s supposed to trigger some form of action, some form of change, a realization of a truth – something, and I think the self-help world has you believing that you should be happy all the time. Matthew Hussey
Lose the group shot in front of the Eiffel Tower, where it’s impossible to tell you from your friends. He’s not going on a date with Paris or your entourage, he’s going on a date with you and he wants to know what you look like. Matthew Hussey
There is literally no one on earth who isn’t interested in relationship dynamics, or how to meet someone special. Or if they’ve already met someone special, how to make that relationship as good as it can be. It’s a universal subject. Matthew Hussey
Choose a guy who has a similar level of drive as you. There’s nothing sexy about being your boyfriend’s life coach. Matthew Hussey
There’s nothing like a man watching a roomful of guys look his woman up and down to make him desire what he already has (and vice versa). Matthew Hussey
The coolest people reveal themselves gradually, and flirting isn’t just about making yourself look great, it’s about making him feel great too. Matthew Hussey
By getting hurt, you might realize that what you thought you wanted and needed wasn’t actually right for you. And that’s a lesson only heartbreak and pain can teach you. Matthew Hussey
Love is closeness. Matthew Hussey
I believe that if a guy doesn’t offer to pay the whole thing when he asks you on a date, he wasn’t taught right. But I also believe if a woman on a date allows him to pay for the whole thing without at least offering to pay half, she wasn’t taught right. Matthew Hussey
Friendship language is, ‘You look nice tonight.’ Desire language is, ‘You look hot tonight.’ Matthew Hussey
Men feel safe and more open when they know that the woman they’re talking to approves of their passion for a particular band/book/cereal. Matthew Hussey
When life hits you hard, it can throw you off course. But how you handle that adversity can teach you so much about yourself and change your perspective on what you actually want from life. Matthew Hussey
One of the classic mistakes is we think if we get closer to someone by just listening to all of their relationship woes, we’re going to suddenly end up romantically involved. Matthew Hussey
Women leave my seminars with a level of confidence they didn’t have before. They can go out, meet people, start conversations and have a good time. They don’t have to worry about waiting for someone great to come along as they know they have the tools to make it happen. Matthew Hussey
The truth is men like women who are challenging, and set them standards to live up too. Caveat: This doesn’t mean he wants someone to neurotically pick at everything all the time. Matthew Hussey
People en masse have lost the ability to go out there and meet people in real life. Matthew Hussey
A man who is invested takes the time to get to know you well, and his gifts will be a testament to his expert grasp of your likes and dislikes. Matthew Hussey
A simple thank-you goes a long way. Matthew Hussey
Don’t just praise a guy’s achievements. Praise the personality traits that made them possible. Matthew Hussey
Women can be made to feel like that makes them seem ‘too demanding,’ but it’s better than wasting time on someone who isn’t planning any future with you. Matthew Hussey
You’d never be able to appreciate what’s good in life if you’ve never experienced the bad. Matthew Hussey
The thing that actually makes a guy settle down is when a woman comes along who has a different set of standards than the other women he’s met. Then she immediately becomes unique. Matthew Hussey
The whole ‘Secret’ sensation really rubbed me the wrong way; I just don’t believe in it. The grain of truth is that what you focus on you’ll get more of, and that’s got to do with the reticular activating system in your brain, not ‘The Secret.’ Matthew Hussey
Here’s the truth that everyone misses – you must not invest in a guy based on how much you like him. You have to invest in a guy based on how much he invests in you. Matthew Hussey
Ghosting’s a horrible thing, isn’t it? It doesn’t feel good, it feels like a rejection. And what’s more, it feels like a rejection where there’s no closure. Matthew Hussey
Once a date asked me what I do, so I said that my company empowers women in their dating lives. Her response? ‘Aw, that’s so cute!’ Cute is how my babysitter described me when I was 7 years old. Simple fix: Replace cute with hot and he’ll feel like James Bond. Matthew Hussey
Women want to attract a ‘high-value’ man. If that’s the man you want to attract you have to be high value yourself. Matthew Hussey
I don’t think the idea of being seen changes in its importance. I think it’s always true. When relationships start to have problems, it’s almost always because we don’t feel seen by that person anymore. Matthew Hussey
Women all think that if a guy likes you he will come and talk to you. That’s nonsense – ‘actually the opposite is true. The more attractive he finds you, the less likely it is he’ll talk to you. Matthew Hussey
Women often try too hard to say what they think a man wants to hear, to like what he likes, to laugh at every joke, and get so nervous talking about themselves that nothing interesting comes out. Matthew Hussey
A hint of competition goes a long way with guys. Matthew Hussey
Women in their thirties are much more nervous about dating. They feel time is ‘running out for them. They want to get married and have a family. The women I see in their forties and fifties know what they want. They are amazing, confident women with good jobs, but they are just struggling to find someone who is their equal. Matthew Hussey
Getting hurt in a relationship is simply a part of life. Matthew Hussey
If you’re in business and you make a sales call and that lead doesn’t buy from you, you don’t sit there all day mourning the loss of that lead. You go out there and make 10 more sales calls! Matthew Hussey
You have to connect on emotion not logic. People go on dates and it becomes a CV exercise. Logic is someone asking ‘what do you do for a job?’ when you should ask ‘why do you do that? What is it you enjoy?’ Matthew Hussey
Working with guys allowed me to at least understand guys in a way that I could then say to women, ‘Look, here’s what I’ve learned about men.’ Matthew Hussey
You know he’s invested when he doesn’t treat his ‘friend time’ and ‘girlfriend time’ as mutually exclusive. Matthew Hussey
We live in a world of social media, dating apps, online profiles where everyone is portraying themselves in 2D, trying to look cool. Portray yourself in three dimensions. Matthew Hussey
Think of your early dates as a chance to leave clues about your expectations with a little technique called pre-framing. Say: ‘My friend gets annoyed because her boyfriend never opens the car door for her. It’s a shame when guys don’t do those little things.’ Matthew Hussey
Your Friday and Saturday nights are sacred. When a new guy asks for a prime-time date early on, suggest drinks and make him the warm-up. Matthew Hussey
If you label someone lazy or a liar, he’ll feel like that for life. Worse, guys lose motivation to change when we feel like your perception of us is set in stone. Matthew Hussey
Plenty of casual daters will throw you off with maddening phrases like ‘I’m just enjoying having fun with you.’ This doesn’t make them a bad person, but it’s your call now how to respond. Just don’t assume ‘having fun’ or any such cliche means they’re going to suddenly decide they want a relationship next week. Matthew Hussey
Research shows that making eye contact is a powerful draw for guys – even in photos. Just don’t mistake duck face for flirty. Matthew Hussey
If you find yourself annoyed at his lazy tendencies early on, be wary – because that’s one trait of his that won’t magically change when he gets a better job or finally joins that gym. Matthew Hussey
A little flattery goes a long way. Matthew Hussey
The guy who wants to spend all his time with you may seem romantic, but he’s also the guy who’ll try to stop you from doing anything that doesn’t involve him. If he presses you to ditch hobbies, passions, and friends, it’s time to ditch him. Matthew Hussey
It’s powerful for a guy to know your exes have regrets. Matthew Hussey
I honestly believe there is nothing more important in a person’s life than love and I want to show women how to have fun and get the best out of dating. Matthew Hussey
One of the most overwhelming things about dating is imagining going on an entire dinner date for an evening with someone you don’t even know you have chemistry with yet. Matthew Hussey
Even when I was young, I cared too much about what other people thought, especially girls. Matthew Hussey
Firstly, there is no perfect man. Looking for that it worse than starting the race badly, it means you’re in the wrong race. What women should be searching for is their ideal man – i.e. the one whose values, beliefs and outlook on life synergise with their own. Matthew Hussey
Women are conditioned to believe Prince Charming is going to come and sweep them off their feet. Matthew Hussey
Even the toughest of eggs to crack will have soppy, soft moments when they feel in love. Usually they’ll want to be more physically affectionate in terms of hugging and kissing, and they’ll feel more protective towards you. Matthew Hussey
The right man applauds your potential, he doesn’t stifle it. Matthew Hussey
The easy way to make your texts sexier? Lose the question marks. Matthew Hussey
I think people don’t want be alone. Ultimately, we want to feel connected. We want to feel like there is someone who actually sees us in the world. That’s the big thing: to be seen. How many people actually feel seen? Matthew Hussey
With any form of change, it’s kind of like you’re dislodging something. Once you’ve done it a little bit, you can open the floodgates. Matthew Hussey
One of the people I most admired was Christopher Hitchens. He was extremely polarizing but extremely honest, to a fault sometimes, but I respected him for that, and I loved his debating style. Matthew Hussey
I’ve spoken to over 10,000 guys in my career, so I know what they think when it comes to dating. Matthew Hussey
If you want to meet a better quality man, you’re going to have to get used to taking more risks. Matthew Hussey
When women want things to get more serious they can come across like relationship saleswomen but a man wants to think his own mind took him there. Matthew Hussey
The number one mistake people make in attraction is either doing too much or too little. Matthew Hussey
If he doesn’t follow through with actions, he’s either selfish or a liar. Neither makes him sound like The One, does it? Matthew Hussey
How do you bust out of the friend zone? It’s a horrible place to be when you end up there unintentionally with someone you have a romantic interest in. Matthew Hussey
People don’t want to be put on the spot over whether or not they like you, they want to come to that conclusion themselves. It’s ok to let someone know you’re interested, but there’s no need to go any further than that. Matthew Hussey
Being in a relationship doesn’t mean you’re successful. You are successful if you are happy. Matthew Hussey
Guys don’t get as many physical compliments as women do. Tell him his CrossFit habit is paying off. He’ll work double time to impress you. Matthew Hussey
The key to asking someone out is to not really ask. In other words, don’t feel your sentence needs to end with a question mark. Matthew Hussey
If you are in a toxic relationship, that poisons you everywhere else in your life. Matthew Hussey
Too many people say they want someone extraordinary in their lives but they aren’t extraordinary themselves. Matthew Hussey
Speaking from personal experience, if someone asked me on a date, I would still want to pay. Matthew Hussey
Life isn’t easy but it’s not as complicated as we make it out to be. Matthew Hussey
I once told a date, ‘I love what you’re wearing!’ She replied, ‘Aw, thanks. I’ve gotten so many compliments on it. Yours means the most though!’ She didn’t need to tell me guys were hitting on her – my imagination went there anyway. Matthew Hussey
The need to make sure everyone knows all of the great stuff about us is usually an insecurity in itself. Matthew Hussey
Just because someone isn’t allowing you to pay for the date, it doesn’t mean you can’t contribute on some level. For example, if someone took you for dinner and a movie, they may have paid for the dinner, they may have paid for the movie tickets, but then you buy the popcorn. Matthew Hussey
